RARE TYPES OF SYNCHRONICITIES (part 2)
1.4. The Break-up S-y. 1.5. The Moving S-y.
1.4. The Break-up S-y.
In this case, the highly anomalous event (with an extremely low probability in real life) prods me to take an instant decision about a love relationship, even though I had been unable to solve this dilemma for days.
After living for some time with my new boyfriend in Paris, I left to spend three or four days in my own house south of Paris with a specific intent: to decide whether or not to pursue our now three-month-old love relationship. Yet, past that time, and now driving back to his flat in Paris, I felt confused and upset because I hadn’t been able to make up my mind.
At one point, on the highway, I abruptly realize I’ve been at a slow truck pace, following one along the truck lane for a moment already (despite the highway being mostly clear, and the fact I usually drive on the speed lane); and what’s more, there’s a huge name written in black across the whole width of the truck’s white back door – the exact family name of my boyfriend, an unusual and long foreign name at that.
After a first moment of utter bewilderment (at the extremely low probability of such an occurrence), I now become aware I’m “stuck behind the truck” – moving at a speed (or ‘energy’) much lower than my usual one. My psyche immediately translates: My energy is lower, my creativity and independence is null; I’m ‘stuck’ in the relationship. Then, decision: “Let’s do something. Let’s overtake that truck (relation)!” This insight took hardly two or three seconds, while I must have been debating with myself for several minutes behind the truck, unaware (in my conscious) there was a name on it. Then I get in higher gear and speed up to overtake the truck. While doing so, I immediately experience an immense sense of relief and liberation, while I feel I’m being myself all over again. Because, at the very moment of the decision and symbolic action, I had solved the dilemma and had already gone through the breakup process. (The subsequent discussion with my boyfriend, explaining my decision, will only be a formal ending; as far as I’m concerned, the inner process is already completed.)
This instance is impossible to explain by a mere random coincidence, which some could evoke with the scarab event. (The three days of inner debate, the exact name, the stress of not having taken a decision yet, even though I’m going to see him soon…). Note that the appearance of the name is a Type-1 synchronicity, but it is just a part of this complex synchronistic phenomenon.
In this elaborate S-y, we see how my higher Self, endowed with a wiser and more global outlook on my conscious life, manipulates events in the 4D world in order to send me an unmistakable message, a sign that suddenly makes me aware of a higher priority in my life – that of my creative and high gear dedication to research and writing; the higher aims and aspirations
of my soul, who cannot thrive when held down by confused emotions. (Had it been a dream, I would have interpreted it with the same ease that I grasped the symbolic event on the road. However, this was not a dream, and this is most remarkable.) It shows the Self does have the capacity to actually bend and reorganize ‘outside’ events, objects, and to manage object-space-time frames with exquisite timing. I thus propose to add a Type-4 S-y, namely the correspondence between a mind (psychic state) and an obviously tinkered actual external event, meaning-laden (thus a Type-4 mind–PK-event S-y).
Moreover, this S-y illustrates very clearly the Self coming to the foreground and taking over the reins. As I’ve have repeatedly experienced it (and spent a lot of time analyzing it in my books),our own Self has the capacity to interfere in our lives – giving us warnings through precognitive dreams; speaking to us via the voice of our Daimon (the inner voice); helping us avoid accidents, or minimizing them, through drastic actions (as I recount several examples of these interferences in Living Souls).
1.5. The Moving S-y.
In this case, I produced, with just a few hours of a visualization on my intent, a solution to a serious problem, by triggering a complex S-y. In brief, I bent the odds with a strong intent.
I’m in my late twenties, and in a dire financial situation with my boyfriend Pat. We have just three days left to leave and empty our Paris flat – all our stuff is already in boxes, but we have no money to pay for a mover or even a hauling truck (it wasn’t possible to rent one in these times). Sitting on the carpet in the morning, we have again gone through all possibilities, and reviewing all our acquaintances for some possible help, to no avail. I suddenly have an idea, and it grows into a full-fledged plan in a matter of minutes. It goes like this: “I know I’ve had incredible synchronicities while hitchhiking on the road…
I’m going to hitchhike on the périph (the highway turning around Paris), always full of trucks, and hopefully the truck driver giving me a lift could help with the moving.” As I’ve to visit again the real estate office in A, the northern suburb where is our new rented flat, I’ll use the occasion to do so.
I build up my intent with a strong visualization on finding a nice truck driver while hitchhiking; and by mid-afternoon, I get into action and take the metro up to the nearest access to the highway, on Porte d’Auteuil (a chic quarter). There are only six exit points, called Portes (gates) to get to my appointment. (That leaves me just about 15-20 minutes to get acquainted and persuade the driver to help me – that’s going to be tough!) Now standing at the entry to the northward access ramp, I’m raising my arm and thumb out for a lift. But looking around me, I see a medium size truck stopped at the curb on a side street leading to the ramp, with the driver, his window down, looking at some papers over his wheel.
I’ve a strong intuition and walk toward the guy.
“Are you going to take the périph toward the north by chance, passing by the A Porte?”
“Yes, as soon as I’ve figured out something!”
“So, you can give me a lift to there?”
“Okay, come in!”
Meanwhile he folds his papers, and starts the engine. After saying hello, I present myself as a writer (I’ve not published anything yet, but I’ve loads of manuscripts, and that’s how I feel myself to be). He tells me he is a merchant at Les Puces (the Flee market, open on weekends, Porte de St-Ouen, top north, an exit situated after A).
While we drive, I exclaim “Your truck, that’s what I really would need! I’ve to move my stuff to A, and I’ve no money for a mover!”
Says he: “Oh! Look, Sunday, I’ve to go to the Flee market early morning; I could help you move your stuff an hour earlier… say 6am.”
“You would do that, really?”
“Yeah, sure, I can Sunday.”
“That would be really great! Oh, look, we are already getting there, where I go down.”
He gets on the exit lane and stops farther at the curb, and I give him my address. That Sunday, while waiting on the pavement in a chilly dawn with most of our boxes piled up, I couldn’t help but sensing some stress in my still incredulous boyfriend, knowing that was our last day to move out. Yet the merchant came and we transferred our boxes in his truck! By the time we had stacked all of these in our new flat on the third floor (and he helped us do that), the first cafés had opened, and the only thing we could offer our so helpful companion was a coffee.
Let’s break down what was implied by this Moving S-y.
(1) Consciously building the intent for a few hours (with visualization); (2) Unconsciously triggering an encounter with a benevolent and selfless person; (3) and planning the precise time and space coordinates to meet him. In other words, my Self concocted a S-y and coordinated it! And my Self did that in line with my intent and need. We thus have a complex Type-4 S-y. Yet something is missing: How is the Self able to find the right person in the first place, and know at which exact time he’ll be at a place where I’ll be hitchhiking? How can the Self manage all possible mishaps and delays one way or the other? Of course, he was stopped at the curb, and that did allow some time adjustments, because, being attractive, my usual waiting time on a road for a lift was of the order of a few minutes.
Finally, addressing some questions from the Devil’s advocate: Why do I attribute it to my Self and not to my own conscious psi? Because both the encounter and its timing were driven unconsciously. And why not invoke spirits and angels? Because our Self is our guardian angel and belongs to the divine realm, and it’s crucial we understand that. (Discarnate spirits could have helped too, but our Self (syg-field) is branched on our brain and body, thus able to influence directly our actions and their timing.)
In this instance, we see with unmistakable clarity the full scale of the integrated relationship between our ego (the conscious) and our Self in the HD. Our Self has access to HD capacities, due to syg-energy’s properties. Its faster-than-light (FTL, or tachyonic) speed allows for instant Self-to-Self communication at a distance (unconscious); moreover, being beyond space and time, the Self has access to all time and space coordinates. In other words, telepathic contact, clairvoyance and precognition are intrinsic capacities of our hyperconscious Self. The Self can thus find the perfect person, empathic enough to help me. This is why the degree to which a person develops consciously their psi capacities depends on their inner harmonization with their own Self.
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